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Why Do We Self-Sabotage? Here’s The Truth!
Issue #68 - September 30, 2025

Table of Contents
Atiba’s Musings | The Delegation Trap | Bonus Insight | What We’re Building with AI | Community | Book I’m Currently Reading | Tool Spotlight
Atiba’s Musings 🤓
Why Do We Self-Sabotage
I caught myself almost slipping into self-sabotage again. You ever get that? You’re making progress, almost at the finish line, and then—boom—you suddenly do something completely unrelated that derails you. For me, that pattern has been there for years. Normally, I don’t even notice it until it’s too late. But yesterday was different. It felt almost like an out-of-body experience. I could see the thoughts and emotions trying to pull me off track, and for once, I didn’t follow them. It was strange, uncomfortable, even made me feel a little sick—but it stopped me from spiraling into the same old pattern. And it got me thinking… we all self-sabotage in one way or another. If we didn’t, we’d probably be unstoppable. But the truth is, we all have things that hold us back. The real question is—how do you deal with it? Have you ever noticed yourself in that moment, watching your own patterns, and choosing differently?
👉 I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.
▶️ Watch the full video for the complete story, subscribe to my channel for more, and just reply to this email to share your experience with me.
The Delegation Trap 📕

Self-sabotage often hides in plain sight—through trying to do everything yourself. That’s why I wrote The Delegation Trap.
Inside, you’ll discover:
The C.A.S.E. Method for effective delegation
7 silent mistakes that keep teams dependent
Why “80% good enough” is a myth
4 questions to turn order-takers into problem-solvers
How I delegated 200+ tasks without chaos
It’s not a checklist. It’s about creating a team that prevents you from self-sabotaging by carrying the load efficiently.
Bonus Insight 🎁
"The Captain Built a Ship."
A captain built a ship. But every time a leak appeared, the crew called him. He spent his days patching holes, moving forward but drowning. That’s not leadership. That’s survival. Too many founders are trapped in this cycle.
And the only way out? Redefining delegation.
👉 I broke it down in this post. Go read it, drop a comment, and follow me for more insights.
What We’re Building with AI 🤖
📽️ Chat-to-Video AI App Tutorial | N8N + GenSpark + Heygen
Tools we used: N8N → backend workflows GenSpark → frontend integration Heygen → polished video responses It wasn’t seamless—but we now have a Delegation Trap Pocket Coach that talks back to you in video. Not flawless yet, but powerful.
👉 Watch the full tutorial and subscribe to my channel to stay ahead as this shift unfolds.
Community 👥
“Glad You’re With Us”
I just want to take a moment to say thank you. Last week at Growth Hacking Live in San Diego, I had the chance to meet some of you in person: Nuno, Chris, Ed, and a few more who told me you’ve been reading this newsletter. Honestly, it means a lot to hear that what I share here adds value to you. That’s always been my main goal.
If you know someone else who could benefit from these insights, feel free to pass it along or let me know so we can reach them too. I’d love for this message to spread in a way that helps more people.
👉 If you haven’t already, subscribe to my newsletter so you don’t miss the next one. And I’d love to hear your thoughts, just hit reply to this email and share what’s on your mind.
Book I’m Currently Reading 📚
The 4 Disciplines of Execution by Chris McChesney
“Discipline is the bridge between goals and results.” Exciting ideas are nothing without follow-through. This book is a solid reminder to focus, stay disciplined, and finish strong.
Tool Spotlight 🛠

The One Funnel Away Challenge is a 30-day program by Russell Brunson that guides you step-by-step to build a high-converting sales funnel. Daily lessons, practical missions, and accountability support help you launch a funnel that drives traffic and generates sales, fast.
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