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Atiba’s Musings 🤓

What if every single day was a success? Think about that for a moment. How would that change the way you show up, the way you work, the way you feel? Too often, we measure success by what didn’t get done the never-ending to-do list, the missed opportunities, the gap between where we are and where we think we should be. But what if we flipped that? What if we focused on the gain instead of the gap?

In this issue, I’m sharing a simple yet powerful way to redefine success one that has helped me stay focused, motivated, and moving forward every single day. It’s not about doing everything, but about doing the one thing that truly matters. And if you add in a little bit of courage taking on something that scares you? Oh man, that’s where the magic happens.

So let’s talk about it. How do you measure success? Hit reply, share your thoughts, and let’s grow together. 🚀💡

"A gathering isn’t just about bringing people together it’s about making them feel seen, heard, and connected. The magic isn’t in the invitation; it’s in the intention."
— Priya Parker

This Dinner with Friends is different. It’s not just about great food or deep conversations - it’s about something more. A chance to pause. To reflect. To appreciate…

📍 Where: Hidden in plain sight 😁
📅 When: When the moment is just right❤️

No big speeches. No agenda. Just a night to connect, to share, and to celebrate the journey we’re on - together.

🥂 To those who turn vision into reality.

When it comes to living out one’s passion, Melinda Davis-Gillinger truly stands out.

Her journey and the reasons behind her business and nonprofit work, One Child at a Time are nothing short of inspiring. After facing the challenges of having a special needs child who didn’t receive the support they needed in school, Melinda made it her mission to help other families in similar situations. She is driven by a fierce determination to ensure that children, who are often overlooked by the educational system, get the resources they need to thrive. Just like every child deserves the right to an education, she believes that they shouldn’t be forgotten or sidelined.

It's easy for many of us in business to focus solely on profit and our professional skills, but Melinda reminds us of the importance of passion and the greater good. Her work is not just about business; it’s about making a real impact in the world. This dedication is precisely why Melinda and I have become friends over time. We genuinely enjoy having her at our Dinner with Friends gatherings, as she brings such a vibrant energy to our discussions and her advocacy work adds a meaningful layer to our conversations.

People are drawn to those who genuinely love what they do, and Melinda’s passion and care for others truly stand out. She shows how personal experience and professional dedication can come together to create real, meaningful impact.